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No any relationship can last long if there is no commitment between the partners. All the enthusiasm and excitement vanishes with the passage of time. Even the young and energetic couples realize after sometimes that a relationship which they enjoyed earlier is being tolerated by them. Both the male and female partners look sluggish as far as theirs facial expressions, speeches, tones and responses are concerned. They can be termed to live a toxic relationship which doesn’t seem to be a healthy sign of married life. Why and how this happens with the married couples is the topic which I would like to dwell on revealing some conspicuous points for all of you to contemplate at.

Why does  the relation become dull and boring?

Interacting with a large number of married couples, a conclusion that we’ve reached at, reveals that young couples falling in love are seen preparing the papers of divorce, while those who marry with the consent of their parents do enjoy a lasting relationship for long. It is not that the married couples do not pass through any up and down in their relationship. They also take part in verbal duals ejaculating their frustration and anger but not to end the existing relationship as they find themselves bonded in a relationship blessed by their parents and guardians.

Despite getting angry the married couple is seen performing its all of duties.The wife prepares breakfast as usual and serves it, while the husband brings food stuffs and other domestic goods from the market. If wife’s anger is within a limit, she will be seen sharing breakfast and dinner without uttering even a single word to her husband on the dining table. A pin-drop silence in the room will substantiate that there is a cold war between the husband and wife. How long will such silence will go on, can’t be predicted as it is the matter solely of someone’s affectionate intervention making both the partners dialogue with each other.

If you try to find what causes a crack in a relationship between the husband and wife, you will come across many reasons, but what plays its most conspicuous role causing a dispute between the husband and wife is a mental complex, affecting them negatively. If the man doesn’t agree with any decision of his wife and looks upon her all the acts, he is entitled to be called a man of superiority complex, while the wife looking pessimistic by her acts should be called a victim of inferiority complex.  

Whenever such type of toxic relationship occurs between the husband and wife, the man dominates his wife rapidly which after sometimes turns into his nature, causing a great humiliation to his wife.The situation oftentimes goes out of control, if the wife keeps tolerating her husband’s bullish acts hoping some improvement in the time to come which in fact never happens. Such type of toxic relationship leads after all, towards nothing, except a faction between both the partners.     
  
You now must have got a question asking whether the wife should react harshly against her husband’s unscrupulous acts becoming recalcitrant by her nature.  No, she rather should make her husband realize that the way he treats her is not expected on his part as a good husband and he should bring a change in his behavior as soon as possible. If the wife has been tolerating her bullish husband for long, such type of response from her will irritate the husband making him more aggressive and wrathful. Such toxic relationship needs the intervention and guidance of close friends and relatives. If the husband still looks incorrigible then you should provide your husband sufficient time and space so that he can realize his mistake. Leave him for a few days, weeks or months as it is the only remedy which heals all the injuries and recovers even the emotionally hurt individuals.